How Children Succeed

Grit, Curiosity, and the Hidden Power of Character

Character, not smarts, makes children successful, argues Paul Tough. The good news is that character can be taught. He tells us how in a series of real-life examples.

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Reader Reviews for this Book

sweety95838

Review posted October 1, 2021

5

great book gives lots of information

Jaki Oroian

Review posted August 23, 2021

4

Very interesting and helpful

Emilyhakim

Review posted August 3, 2021

4

Well explained and useful knowledge, however it is more a book catered to educators rather than parents. The stories about kids were engaging and relevant to the subject.

mrschavolla

Review posted May 27, 2021

5

This was a good read, I am a parent and an educator, this book had a lot of insight on building a child's character through self-control, self- confidence ect.. not just focusing on academics but building up the child themselves, lots of great ideas.

Jnicholson411

Review posted April 23, 2021

5

Excellent book for a teacher or parent's toolkit.

Nickybetsy

Review posted April 13, 2021

3

I enjoyed the broader ideas of this book that highlight the importance of other qualities besides intelligence.

Autumn R Mosley

Review posted March 17, 2021

4

I'm finding this book really useful. I'm trying really hard to teach my children resiliency in the face of failure (something I was not taught). This book has some wonderful evidence-based ways in which to do this.

Shannon Brown

Review posted January 28, 2021

3

Interesting topic, informative & worth the read.

kathy pecchioni graham

Review posted December 21, 2020

4

I especially enjoyed reading a book that supports things like emotional intelligence. In my line of work the children involved are not only assessed for typical milestone development but also their social/emotional development. Everyone wants their child to be really smart , which is understandable, but it is their ability to understand others while being true to themselves that will make a child "successful" in the world.

FrancesJeanmard

Review posted November 13, 2020

5

This was an informative book. I highly recommend that my families read this book.

DonnaS

Review posted November 8, 2020

3

While I can appreciate what appear to be personal stories, he also weaves surveys, studies, and quotes from other books so much so that the former was lost in the telling. Would have liked to have seen the continuation of the personal stories, where they are now, etc. Left me wondering just how children do succeed?

jessicashumate

Review posted November 4, 2020

5

As a parent and a teacher, I was interested in this topic because I am passionate about helping children to achieve their full potential. This book explains how grit can predict success, resilience, and happiness, and how to help the children in your life develop it. Highly recommend this informative, engaging book!

Gacevedo516

Review posted September 28, 2020

5

I really enjoyed this book. This novel provided insights on how to best support children to help me move forward. The author also goes onto explain how in the long term our actions and influences can impact students. Strong read, highly recommend to everyone!

shermaji

Review posted September 27, 2020

5

This was an interesting and well-researched discussion on what really makes kids successful in life. Learning to work hard and have perseverance matter a lot more in life than an expensive education. Having loving involved parents is the most important factor for a successful child but the impact of other adults in a young person's life can be enormous.

Miapeluche

Review posted September 22, 2020

5

Very good book. It has helped me With my 4 year old very much!

Terri 001

Review posted September 22, 2020

4

The author shared very persuasive examples of programs, clubs and teaching techniques that have been employed for low success learners. He proved to me that success in school must be grounded in strong character traits like grit and persistence. It starts with newborns who need warmth and support to grow though it can be achieved in elementary school through a supportive mentor. Grades earned in high school are more predictive of college success than SATs.

Danafmonroe

Review posted August 15, 2020

5

Great for educators. Uses characters and stories to explain the research.

Godsey

Review posted August 2, 2020

4

Given the very uncertain and traumatic times that children are living in today, this book gives excellent information to help them dig through to find their path. As a teacher, I especially like the real examples given and will recommend this book to the parents of my students.

kacumings

Review posted July 5, 2020

5

I appreciated the deep research and the personal investment that Paul Tough put into How Children Succeed. As a middle school educator, I and the rest of us on the front lines are constantly bombarded by administrators with the latest and greatest program, methodology, pedagogy that will turn our struggling students around. This report offers both focus and hope, and affirms what many of us on the ground already know -- it is not the smartest or "brainiest" that does the best in the end; it is the one that works the hardest, that incorporates the tools provided by skilled and caring teachers into their everyday work. I hope more administrators will read this work and be inspired.

Anna Minter

Review posted July 2, 2020

5

I loved reading the stories to illustrate the author's points. I gained so much insight and hope for Parenting and Child Ed. I relish books that combine research, the science and real life stories. Paul Tough has done his homework. I highly recommend this book. It is inspiring hope for our educational system.

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Review posted June 18, 2020

4

This book provides thoughtful reflection on how we as parents have influence over our child's success. Great insight into how we can make the life a little better for those growing up in poverty. A whole new perspective on childhood and the things that impact success as a person.

[email protected]

Review posted May 24, 2020

4

Nice history of stories and specific examples to questions about how we turn out how we do. And how to help the outcomes.

shannonfast

Review posted May 20, 2020

4

I found this book to be very interesting and helpful. I work with student everyday and have used much of the information from this book to foster my interactions with those students. I think this book plus an understanding of child development can really help educators and parents understand and support children growth.

annarickards

Review posted May 19, 2020

4

Great book, thank you so much for your generosity in providing books to educators -- we appreciate it!!

sburgess

Review posted May 4, 2020

5

Would definitely suggest reading if working with children in any capacity. A well done read!

authoramy

Review posted April 16, 2020

4

This really excellent book asks the question, "Why do some children succeed in school and in life when others don't?" As a teacher, I've asked myself the exact same question many times. I really liked this book a lot. The information was really relevant to my profession, and the information was also backed by science, which I also like. I strongly agree that "grit" is missing, and this book gave me some new insights.

Continuelearingin2018

Review posted April 13, 2020

4

This is a tough topic, especially in this day and age. I have to say this book was very in-depth and had a lot of really good information it's definitely changed how I think about this issue. The cliff note version...teach your children chess!

jennabee

Review posted April 7, 2020

3

The information presented is very interesting and informative. The author takes many different studies, over many different age levels and has an easy to read manner. However, throughout the book I was wondering how all of the information and studies connected. The author quickly made connections in the last section, but some tie ins throughout the book would have made the information more user friendly.

[email protected]

Review posted March 31, 2020

5

Tough's book is very persuasive and thought provoking. I sense a greater awareness, among the parents with whom I interact, with the importance of these character skills. How do we integrate these reforms into our public school and social service systems still needs to be answered.

Shaworth

Review posted March 19, 2020

4

This book is very helpful and has tons of great ideas for my elementary school.

seamomteach

Review posted February 26, 2020

3

I enjoyed this book, but having worked with growth mindset in the classroom it is not a earth shaking perspective presented. That being said, everyone should be educated in this belief.

Haybird13

Review posted February 17, 2020

5

I absolutely loved this book and got a lot of information by reading this book.

Diana Molina

Review posted January 22, 2020

4

Great read for those working in the social work field and children.

shugill

Review posted January 21, 2020

5

informative and easy to read

kwalker

Review posted January 12, 2020

5

Great read! Thanks for the opportunity to read this book.

nclind

Review posted December 23, 2019

5

I absolutely love this book and will be recommending it to my coworkers!

Shayneochoa

Review posted December 12, 2019

4

This book was great at expanding my ideas and thoughts about how children view the world. Highly recommended for teachers and counselors

Carol

Review posted December 7, 2019

5

How Children Succeed by Paul Tough is a practical reminder that we all need support and love to thrive, the earlier, the better. Many studies and anecdotal narratives reinforce how important motivation is to continued success.

jrbrant831

Review posted December 6, 2019

4

I enjoyed that the book was written as case studies. It made it engaging and easy to follow. I also felt that the book had a lot of relevant information and strategies. Good read overall.

mahaffeyfam

Review posted November 26, 2019

4

I really enjoyed this book. My son is very spirited and full life. I am always looking for ways to help him be successful everyday and teach him to always be his best. I always want him to channel his energy in a positive direction. Teaching him self control is always our biggest challenge, but it's always getting better. The more I learn, the better I can guide him.

suemusico

Review posted November 16, 2019

5

An excellent and inspiring book. Should be read after The Deepest Well. I'm passing both on to my daughter, who is working with children with behavioral special needs.

NWCoastalGirl

Review posted November 12, 2019

5

How Children Succeed is one of my favorite books to date. It is dense with studies and first hand accounts that support the points that it makes. The book heavily promotes the importance of attachment and loving care given to young children- and the impact that has on the rest of their lives. Highly recommend for any parents!

kck.hankins3

Review posted November 11, 2019

4

very good book

Coubri

Review posted November 6, 2019

5

I feel re-empowered to help make choices for and with my children that will help them make their own good choices when I am not around.

thomas_danyelle

Review posted October 10, 2019

5

I appreciated the way this book was informative and specific for both the children in my classroom and the ones in my home.

BrandiS

Review posted October 1, 2019

5

This book was great at giving insight on how children tick. I was able to gain tools to motivate the children I work with.

Bonsaimonkeymom

Review posted September 18, 2019

5

I liked this book. It gave me insight on how my kids brain worked and helped me understand how to help them reach their full potential.

Nstein910

Review posted September 13, 2019

4

This book is very relevant and helpful in understanding the importance of perseverance, grit, and character development for students. Definitely a useful book for educators and parents to use to help their children become more successful when faced with challenges. Would recommend.

AmandaAdams

Review posted September 3, 2019

5

This book was an easy read--the writing style was very accessible, and the author does a good job of helping readers understand why cognitive abilities alone are not the primary factor in a child's future successes or failures. This book reminds us that life skills which ALLOW us to learn are critical, and this is where we should focus more of our attention as educators, community leaders, and parents.

Almaaguayo

Review posted August 28, 2019

5

This book helped so much, thank you for offering such amazing ones.

ESkenzick

Review posted August 1, 2019

5

This book is full of well-researched data from throughout the United States, with many studies that prove how trauma affects both learning and behavior of students of all ages. As a teacher, it’s a great reminder of the challenges my students may face, but that they can be overcome. If you work with kids in any capacity, this is a must-read.

KBurnham

Review posted June 19, 2019

5

A very nice read. The chapter on "How to build chacter", is well done. Discussing how to help children build motivation in this chapter was inspiring. A very good book.

jeanharman

Review posted May 25, 2019

5

I would suggest anyone interested in children and how they learn, to read this book. The book makes a compelling argument that the type of learning described here could make a big difference to help students overcome social issues. The author is a journalist who provides a very readable, compelling, and informative overview of an interesting and relevant topic. He cites psychological research that identifies 24 key character skills which influence the success of individuals over their lives as much as any academic knowable or trade skills. The narrative revolves around stories of two school leaders, one from a very exclusive and expensive private school and one from a KIPP Charter School serving disadvantaged kids, who work together to incorporate these skills into their schools. Both of them noted that improving the academic grades and competencies of their students was not a good predictor of their success in college and in life. The KIPP school leader creates a character report card that is now used in KIPP schools along with traditional report cards, with encouraging outcomes. The teacher at the elite school tried to incorporate the ideas into his school, however parents did not see that as a role of their school. This is not really about character in terms of being a good person. Rather, it is about habits of successful people such as grit, persistence, determination, social awareness, etc. The book provides enough understanding to begin to structure these life habits into a regular school curriculum. I enjoyed reading the book - some parts drag a bit - but all-in-all a worthwhile and useful read.

paolamendoza

Review posted May 20, 2019

5

The book, "How Children Succeed" takes an interesting perspective on what helps children do well in school and life. For those who believe that IQ determines intelligence and narrows down whether one will succeed in higher education or a particular career, this book is here to tell us that success is not predetermined but instead comes from a comprehensive approach of curiosity, grit, and one's character. For teachers, peer educators, anyone in a parenting education field, or simply want to help one's own children succeed one day: this book is for you!

kathy3842

Review posted May 16, 2019

2

The book explains how what we do now doesn't work. It talks about new ways of education that are coming out of the economic and psychological sectors. The author talked about giving children positive ways of learning good character and never gives an example of how to teach your child good character.

sahenderson

Review posted May 11, 2019

4

Interesting read. Tough argues that intellectual ability isn't a good indicator of success, although the author struggles to define what "success" is. Tough states that character traits such as "grit" and "curiosity" are better predictors. I do not think he is wrong per se, but I do think Tough's theory is simplistic. But a good read nonetheless; it is concise and non-repetitive.

Amanda

Review posted April 25, 2019

4

The reported study of the middle school in the Bronx was incredible. Strong academically kids did not survive high school and college as well as less academic kids due to resilience skills. This is a book that supports other evidence that we may be focusing too much energy on academics and not enough on building the resilience skills in children.

reilly1028

Review posted April 24, 2019

4

Reading How Children Succeed had me reconsidering my preconceptions about what's best for kids, and my son specifically. I learned a things that I can use to help my child succeed. The argument in this book is that character skills, such as grit, resilience, and/or learning to fail, are a better predictor of success rather than just academic skills alone.

Dspears07

Review posted April 19, 2019

4

Loved it. Gave me insight in how to support kids at both home and work

Mindtraveler

Review posted April 15, 2019

4

I enjoyed the blunt conversation about some of the struggles and victories in public education today. I don't feel there is enough conversation around character going on in general and this book outlined reasons why character can be a powerful predictor for success. Whether it be school or life in general, this book showed how teaching or modeling character can make all the difference.

jlwatson

Review posted April 2, 2019

3

An interesting read. I liked that the ACE Study was talked about and the parental interventions. A helpful book for those working with children.

kdennis

Review posted March 29, 2019

5

A great read, one I couldn't put down. A powerful reminder that success goes beyond the academics of the classroom, there's so much more for our children to learn.

Kari

Review posted February 17, 2019

4

I highly recommend this book for educators who are looking for information on developing grit in students to help them be successful. Student success comes from belief in oneself, hard work and grit to make it happen!

toniwallisa

Review posted February 8, 2019

4

Review of How Children Succeed I really appreciated the discussion surrounding what we can do to help children succeed. The beginning of the book provides 2 case studies that intrigue me, especially that of the school principal in Chicago. The stories are interesting to follow and this gave a lot of insight into their fields and the troubles they faced. I appreciate the book being divided into what can only be described as sub chapters, but they are lengthy and hard to read the whole page for extended periods of time. In my opinion, the division of the sub chapters needed to be more spread out in order to help with the division of the chapters. The use of firsthand examples brings the reader into the story and makes it more interesting to read. The author uses his stories, and research based practices, to examine how to help children succeed. This book really does focus on things that are less focused on, not intelligence and success, but rather characteristics that can be worked on with parents and/or teachers. Despite growing up in poverty, poor family lives, or what seems like lack of options for success, this book focuses on how to help people to be successful with what they have and how to help them grow. Giving children options they have not has before and fostering their growth by not solely focusing on intelligence, that is how we see them succeed. The things that are important to children who will grow up to be young adults. I recommend this book to those who are interesting in the case studies of helping young adults be successful. The only suggestion I have is that the sub chapters should be split up differently in order to aide in easier reading.

retiredtom

Review posted February 5, 2019

5

My wife and I wish we had read this book 50 years ago when we became parents. The research, the stories, and the proposal make tremendously good sense and we find applicable to raising our grandchildren (and to understanding our children). We could not agree more that grit, curiosity and character are the substance of success. We applaud the foundation for making it available. We are encouraging others to take advantage of this special opportunity.

JanecePayne

Review posted January 30, 2019

5

I'm raising my 5 year old granddaughter and this book is perfect for me. I struggled with my five children as a single parent and now I'm single grandparenting.

youngsa

Review posted January 18, 2019

5

Great book.

Tsecrest

Review posted January 16, 2019

4

The book talks about developing an idea around growing children in school and clinic setting, this also includes a different set of personality traits. Their is a list that includes persistence, self-control, curiosity, conscientiousness, grit, and self-confidence.

Jadeaz1

Review posted January 11, 2019

4

Rather dry, but I learned quite a bit about how children should be rated intellectually.

Loverfrombeyond

Review posted November 24, 2018

4

Knowledgeable and easy to read.

timhutton

Review posted November 7, 2018

4

This book has some good pointers. Not one of the best that I've read, but I would recommend it to anyone working with kids or around young students as a reference.

Dhueckman

Review posted October 11, 2018

5

Why do some kids succeed when others don't? This book is just what I was looking for to increase my own knowledge and to share with parents and caregivers. As a grandparent, I will share with my own children. Life skills can be taught. Character is key to kids thriving and life success.

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Review posted September 18, 2018

5

This book has many great suggestions on how we all can challenge children and ourselves.

krystlemoxley

Review posted September 14, 2018

4

I ordered the audio book, which was great for my commute. I would recommend this to any person who is a parent or those who work with children in general.

mluteran

Review posted July 17, 2018

5

Excellent insight for educators, parents, and others who work with children.

[email protected]

Review posted July 5, 2018

4

The take away from this books is more important that anything I have ever read about children, trauma and resilience. Every child can be successful if they have this one constant in their life. When a child has a loving, consistent, caring and present adult in their live, reacting to and supporting their needs, they can succeed. The most affected kids even have a chance to thrive once that "adult" enters their life. There is hope for every child.

constantinobenjamin

Review posted July 4, 2018

5

Our current educational system primarily focuses on how to academically prepare students for life after secondary school. Little is often done to prepare students in order to learn. Even beginning at young ages, students need to be prepared and supported holistically in order to be ready to learn. In this book Paul Tough brings into the fold new research that examines the factors that impact student's learning. I found the research and evidence provided to be very intriguing, a very intresting read for educators.

Ashlee.marshall

Review posted June 19, 2018

4

I appreciate that they emphasize that the teaching/practices illustrated in the book are all undergoing research. I could easily see a second book going into more detail once there is more to could off of.

foxfireb1

Review posted June 15, 2018

4

This book was very insightful and I learned a lot!

dougsannes

Review posted June 15, 2018

4

Very engaging... I haven't finished reading this yet, but it is difficult to put down.

haleynicole14

Review posted May 29, 2018

5

Great book!

Mommiemeeks

Review posted May 7, 2018

5

Wonderful information and new things to incorporate and help me help my children!!

Toby Abraham-Rhine

Review posted April 8, 2018

3

I chose this title because I am a school counselor and constantly dealing with trauma, ACES and the effects on children’s learning. While this book did provide a vast research base of in-depth programs around the country, I was hoping for some truly practical pieces of best practices to use to help my students. Theories are enlightening, but I really need tools. The chapters vacillated between engaging, inspirational stories and longer tones about theory. I honestly finally had to skip ahead through the long chapter on chess. The point was made clear early on and I am not a chess player. A good read for overall research. I am looking for a “how to” so that I can do everything within my power to help my students.

nkrissie

Review posted April 5, 2018

3

The information would be a great introduction to the topic of children's success. I would not suggest this for teachers, social workers, or others who have studied childhood success because this information would have been covered in your studies and it doesn't add anything new to the topic.

Lguerrero608

Review posted March 14, 2018

5

This book is an excellent read! It's interesting even for those who don't work directly with kids. Would recommend to anyone as a general non-fiction read for anyone. So interesting!!!

cgilder

Review posted January 25, 2018

3

very long and academic.

[email protected]

Review posted January 11, 2018

5

Great book that i found helpful in working with youth. I appreciated the real life examples, will be passing book on to my interns.

JenStephens

Review posted December 8, 2017

5

This book was useful for parents and educator (and policy makers). It highlights that adversity, and how it is handled, can actually be the most important thing in developing a successful child/citizen. Many useful takeaways. I found it to very much support the fact that children, as everyone, need purpose to feel valuable in the world. It also illuminates how important at least one solid supportive relationship is to a child.

Kalika

Review posted November 28, 2017

4

A fascinating read! It is well researched and engaging with many personal stories and experiences to relate to. The one shortcoming is that it doesn't help much with what to do to improve the future of many children. It is clear that there are advantages and many of the pieces of childhood that affect people the most are in place at a very early age. It was both encouraging and discouraging to think about improving community.

Jacque Done

Review posted October 27, 2017

4

This book is worth reading

ghalpin

Review posted October 19, 2017

4

I enjoyed reading this book! The first few chapters really gave me an idea of the "dog eat dog" world of pre-school applications beginning as young as two years old. It's awful that toddlers would be jockeying for a position in a PRE-SCHOOL! I believe, like the author, that the focus should be on curiosity and discovering the world around them. I also agree with the idea of character being established through trial and error, and the adversity found with the conditions faced by many young children. I think that many children that have gone on to accomplish many things were not the children that were provided a privileged pre-school experience. More over, they were the children that were allowed to be children (get dirty, explore, be exempt from play dates, and electronics)... I do think that this book would be more compelling, however, if it gave concrete examples as research based "cases" in which children did succeed given the circumstances that they would most likely fail.

Sillysue143

Review posted October 13, 2017

3

I really enjoyed reading this book, it's about the expectations we put on children, and we can truly help our children succeed in life, how we can improve the lives of children in poverty, it's a different understanding to today's generation and how to help them grow.

wishingheart33

Review posted October 6, 2017

5

Paul Tough presents an effective tool for parents and caregivers of children, but also for survivors of traumatic childhoods. I learned new skills on multiple levels and was profoundly encouraged in my desire to create positive influence within challenged populations.

annztribe

Review posted September 22, 2017

4

What I found so amazing about the message in this book, is that the very obstacles that hold children in poverty back, are the same ones that can be used to propel them forward, if they are equipped with the determination to use their adversity as fuel for success. It is in the equipping that our calling lies: we owe it to the children, to teach them how to rise on the wings of their challenges. We owe it to ourselves, to live this truth first. We can't pass on knowledge we don't understand.

rodetr

Review posted August 2, 2017

5

How Children Succeed: Grit, Curiosity, and the Hidden Power of Character. Review by Rebecca Rodet The idea is that one of the most important ways children & young adults alike succeed in life is by mastering certain character traits. Like perseverance, self-control, and most importantly general conscientiousness of self. Then you can begin to move on with that individual and show them that same consciousness for other people, places, things & the environment around them. (Also known as I suppose as self-control. And you can continue to use this as a development of empathy for others.) Depending on the age appropriateness of the child / young adult you are working with.) ;-) I am a mother of a DX 'Mixed Bi-Polar Child'. Now a Young Adult. I have been exposed to the highest level of highs and the lowest of lows since her diagnosis when she was 5. (Yes their is a family history on the paternal side. Her father has always been around and also has Bi-Polar 2.) My goal was to continue without medication while trying to get her through High School & keep self control intact & perseverance to keep up her grades despite her being "different" than her other peers. This book helped give me extra tools to do so. She graduated Valedictorian from High School despite seeing her own fathers Bi-Polar turn abusive towards me (her mother) - Leading to him going to Jail. Her older sister having to return home from being victimized by a brutal rape crime on a University Campus. She continued with the skills that we learned from in this book to keep her focused and bring out those character traits that we all know each of our children have that others may not see. She is starting her 2nd year at a community college this year. Her Major is Criminal Justice with a Minor in Sociology.

mcalvert

Review posted July 29, 2017

4

I really liked this book and the author's perspective on how children succeed. Super applicable to my work with behaviorally challenged youth! I will be recommending this book to others.

Elsinore Theatre

Review posted July 10, 2017

5

Very impressed. Scholarly approach. Appreciate the notes and index. This will be helpful as we plan programs for children at the Elsinore. Thank you.

Donnamajames

Review posted June 28, 2017

4

A quick read! But very informative. We should not measure a child's intelligence by IQ Scores. We need to begin looking at things like early childhood development, the value in repetition and the impact of parental involvement/impact. We have perhaps been going about it all wrong, developing skills in a manner which isn't nurturing the success, because we're missing the mark in the power of character.

Oshu21707

Review posted June 20, 2017

4

Looking forward to this summer read.

[email protected]

Review posted June 5, 2017

5

This is a wonderful book that supports the argument that students need positive, stable role models to foster success. Paul Tough does a wonderful job of blending research, stories and finds together to create a captivating read that will keep you pondering about how we can engage with students differently to support their learning.

danielangela

Review posted May 23, 2017

5

This is an amazing book that gives practical ideas of how to help children succeed. It's not just about intelligence. There is so much more that children need in order to be successful. I highly recommend this book!

melissa.ferris

Review posted May 16, 2017

4

As an educator working with students living in high poverty, I found this book gave me new insights as to how to help these students succeed in all aspects of their lives. I am in total agreement that a person's character can be more powerful when trying to navigate the world than being stuck in the situations and mind-set they grew up in as a child. A must-read for all teachers and parents.

scl7801

Review posted May 16, 2017

4

This book gave me great insight into working with students in poverty.

kwhitso

Review posted May 8, 2017

4

This book helped to explore important values that are important to success. It was interesting to hear stories of personal success to understand how these are applied in different situations. These qualities will continue to be necessary in becoming a successful adult getting through college and into career settings.

amandalamar

Review posted May 5, 2017

5

Enjoying this resource that our school staff is reading together!

kristin415

Review posted April 9, 2017

4

Very quick read. Gives some good food for thought about parenting and the response to children under stress. Also, how to develop character and how GPA can tell more about later success in life.

[email protected]

Review posted March 11, 2017

5

Such a great inspiring book for children!!!!

jhasbrouck

Review posted February 26, 2017

5

How Children Succeed: Grit, Curiosity, and the Hidden Power of Character By Paul Tough The New York Times, best seller, “How Children Succeed: Grit Curiosity, and the Hidden Power of Character,” by Paul Tough, provides a captivating evaluation of how children are able to overcome adversity to succeed in life, scholastically, socially, and emotionally. Tough provides his own introspection as a researcher and writer as well as providing educational and psychological and medical experts’ research and development theories. Compiling anecdotal evidence from his own research along with expert researchers in different fields, Tough provides a well-rounded perspective on just how much character counts in pursuit of success in life despite socioeconomic backgrounds individuals are raised with. Despite decades of research, program planning, and enrichment programs that have been made available to low socioeconomic students the results have been less than proof positive of financial incentives alone, being the prime source of student success rate indicators. Providing enrichment programs in early intervention sources for children of low socioeconomic status has provided initial gains in test scores and success, however long term success had not seemed to continue. Test scores of IQ are often the status que for developing education programs, measuring intellectual capabilities through aptitude testing and measure capacity of knowledge and understanding. However these measures do not offer a guarantee to success and do not seem to always coordinate with the students who do in fact succeed. There seems to be more at stake than simply IQ aptitude. At the axis of this predicament Tough wants to point out that although students of higher socioeconomic status are somewhat insulated from stress and hardships in life, they also are provided with greater support in others ways; language development and knowledge exposure which tends to me three times that of their lower socioeconomic counter parts but this did not seem to be the key to what makes success possible for children either. Character and perseverance prevail time and time again, providing strong support for theories supporting character perseverance and integrity early in children’s lives, continuing throughout their scholastic career. The students who were met with adversity, may have struggled or even faltered along the way, however, each had the same capacity to over-come their circumstances through grit and determination. The consistent similarities of perseverance in the face of adversity provide insight into how educators can and should be adjusting their curriculum to best support their students as they reach for success. Throughout the book Tough provides compelling real life stories of students who have struggled to reach for success, met with daunting adversity and misfortune, however, each that continued on to pursue their education was found to have great character and integrity. Fostering and reinforcing the importance of character, integrity and the need for facing adversity with strength in knowing perseverance has greater significance in life than testable IQ and data scoring will be more beneficial to children in the classroom and in their future success. Adjusting the focus of education paradigms to include character building activities and exercises could prove to be the social change the education platform has been waiting for, boosting graduation rates and pro-social behavior in the community.

mcneisa

Review posted December 12, 2016

5

We have found this book to be a great reference for child rearing. Sections are well written and the short story examples are interesting and helpful.

amanda.knopf

Review posted October 8, 2016

5

This book is not only useful for parents and teachers of young children; it also provided great insight when I was teaching college English classes. As a humanities scholar and teacher, I am passionate about Tough's idea that the "cognitive hypothesis" is not the only measure of intelligence, and I strive to teach my students to think and write about the various personal, social, emotional, and political lessons (among others) that literature presents. I also teach students with the belief that they are all individuals, with unique learning styles and experiences, so this book has provided a helpful foundation. As a program manager for a mentoring program where I teach a leadership class at a community college and recruit and train students to be mentors for disadvantaged youth, I use this book to prompt my students to reflect on their experiences and come up with ways to help their youth build "Tools of the Mind," which I have seen can be a powerful asset not just for kindergarteners, but for students (and people) of any age.

jorjiepacific

Review posted June 27, 2016

4

In this absorbing book, Tough describes that resiliency, or character, is the defining factor for success for children experiencing adversity. Rather than intellect, Tough insists that qualities like self-control, perseverance, and curiosity can be the key to breaking the cycle of poverty. Tough immerses the reader in case studies demonstrating students who overcome adversity through skills learned from persistent and committed educators. To support his premise, Tough interviews psychologists, economists, and neuroscientists, as well as examining current research. Ultimately, he supports the need for further research in what helps to build resiliency, and what parents and educators can do to instill skills for success.

sderht

Review posted June 23, 2016

4

This book/audio book has confirmed much of what I have previously read about child development. IQ tests are not an accurate measure of success and that emotional and social factors such as determination etc are far more important.

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Review posted June 21, 2016

4

I read this book with my PLC. It prompted great discussions with my team.

morganb_77

Review posted May 12, 2016

5

Prior to buying this book I had heard only wonderful things about it. How it is insightful, accurate and informative. I received this book a couple of weeks ago and cannot wait to dive in and read it.

saintchild

Review posted May 11, 2016

5

Gritty kids! Love it! Very helpful for me in my work, I am always looking for ways to install and encourage resiliency in the teens and young adults I work with, very helpful!

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Review posted April 26, 2016

5

Most conversations I'd heard about "How Children Succeed" focused almost entirely on the emphasis it puts on 'grit.' While Tough does explore work on that subject, particularly Angela Duckworth's research, the book also explores ways that grit manifests differently in a prep school than in a KIPP environment, discusses how inelegant and difficult teaching persistence can be, and balances narratives with longitudinal research. It's valuable information to have in reflecting on factors that lead to one's own success, and genuinely useful information to bring to work in social services.

Ksaito

Review posted April 10, 2016

4

How children succeed taught me a lot about the ways to and to not teach children. The book was very informative and fun to read at the same time while teaching very serious concepts.

Pdxchristine

Review posted March 27, 2016

5

Fascinating book that delves into scientific research behind academic success in children and what qualities really matter in measuring intelligence and predicting future success. A must-read for anyone with children and/or working in schools, especially if you are interested in adversities that children in poverty face and what science says they need to overcome them.

hopefull

Review posted March 24, 2016

4

I wish this book was in my possession when my daughter was younger I really could have used some of the information in this book

onalee Mansor

Review posted March 17, 2016

5

This book inspired me to rethink about the importance of intelligence and the emphasis our society places on testing and determining IQ as if that is all there is in determining an individual's success. It emphasized the importance of just one individual in the lives of our marginalized youth and the influence that person can have in the youths success and in building character so essential to real success in life.

mdoyle

Review posted March 12, 2016

5

Paul Tough shares powerful insight into how possessing specific character strengths is more a predictor for college and life success than academics alone. This is a great resource for students, families, teachers, and administrators wanting to make a difference for students in the 21st century.

jordanjungwirth

Review posted February 10, 2016

4

Great insight to character and/vs. identity to develop grit in youth to better navigate adversity.

kstewar2

Review posted February 10, 2016

5

A thought-provoking look at both academic studies and real-life examples of what it takes for children to succeed in school and in life beyond the classroom. I highly recommend it.

rlottis

Review posted February 7, 2016

4

Some inspiring thoughts about taking a closer look at our children. I read this and watched them play. I enjoyed this book.

jcpeten.gt

Review posted December 10, 2015

5

This book was great . I feel more prepared to help my children be successful in school and life.

rdebey

Review posted December 6, 2015

5

I really enjoyed reading this book. The author begins with a compelling case for the impact of early childhood on overall life outcomes, largely grounded in the research on Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs). Although I had heard of this research before, he was able to describe it's impact in more detail. He then uses a variety of case studies (real-life people/programs) to discuss why kids are failing in high school and college - in essence, its the lack of character traits he describes in detail. Some of the ideas presented were not particularly new to me, but Tough is able to distill the concepts and the research behind them. One of the things I rather enjoyed is the discussion on what is working/making kids succeed as well. As a parent, this book provided valuable insight into rearing children into successful adults. As a citizen, it provided a new lens with which to view some of our society's most challenging issues: poverty and the racial & socioeconomic achievement gaps.

tkwilson

Review posted December 5, 2015

3

Have read this before. Was insightful to see the examples and research provided

patglair

Review posted December 4, 2015

4

This book explores the idea that underprivileged kids can overcome the challenges of their upbringings through hard work and determination, otherwise described as grit. The author shows how middle and upper class kids have safety nets that keep them on track to graduate high school and usually college, while lower class kids face greater obstacles, such as unstable parenting and family life, the stress of poverty, greater exposure to crime and other self-destructive lifestyles, and a host of associated challenges. The book follows the efforts of different schools to design programs that not only teach at-risk kids the knowledge they'll need to pass exams, but to also instill character and discipline that can carry them into a successful adulthood. The book dips heavily into education and psychology theory, as well as the biophysical and chemical processes of growing up, to understand what's happening in the minds and bodies of struggling youth. Overall, I enjoyed this book and the questions it raised even though I don't necessarily agree with all of the author's conclusions. It is worth reading if you are raising a family or take part in youth programs of any kind.

dpalter

Review posted November 18, 2015

2

Technically written..not an easy read and very verbose in stating children that are nurtured and cared for do better in school than kids who are ignored in the home.

cedwards

Review posted November 17, 2015

5

Loved this book - it brought together various research on the subject.

Brandon Bretl

Review posted November 17, 2015

5

The number of other educators I encountered while reading this book who are as fascinated with it as I am speaks accurately of its practical value. As both an educator and a parent I can recommend this book as data driven lens through which to view human development. I specifically encourage the reading of "How Children Succeed: Grit, Curiosity, and the Hidden Power of Character" alongside other like minded folks with whom you can share insights. This highly sourced book is a great introduction and summary of an idea cluster you'll likely want to explore in greater depth. The folks I met serendipitously while reading this book, and I, have formed a loose affiliation, categorized somewhere between a book club and an ad hoc research team, and focused on pursuit of the adjacent possible following Tough's ideas.

mandy.stanley

Review posted November 13, 2015

5

Excellent book. Very easy read. This is a good book for early childhood educators as well as parents!

username

Review posted November 12, 2015

5

Loved this one. Lots of great examples to explain the author's basic premise.

jamiemckay

Review posted November 8, 2015

5

Great read. This books makes you think about how you work with youth.

vsmordja11

Review posted October 21, 2015

4

"Why do some children succeed while others fail?" I worked LE for 10 years & watched this happen within family units of all types. Now that I'm a mom I'm trying to uncover this mystery for my own children. Lots of great insights in this book.

Natalie

Review posted October 18, 2015

4

Informative and hopeful. This book made me want to read more in the educational research field, and certainly dropped enough names to make searching out further reading simple. I like that it's relatively current as well.

sam.engel

Review posted September 29, 2015

5

A very global approach to defining and understanding community impact on the success and failure of children both in youth and, later, when they are parents themselves.

Richard LaPlante

Review posted September 8, 2015

4

Character matters in real life far more than any test scores ever will. I think the author has compiled an overwhelming amount of research done over decades that proves this out. I think the book does an outstanding job of giving a better understanding of what Character means, moral and performance Character.

ashleyjohnsonrx

Review posted August 10, 2015

5

As a parent, educator, and mentor to students I found this book to be enlightening with fascinating facts regarding childhood development that I was not previously aware of. This book is not a “how-to” guide on how to raise the most successful children but instead provides gripping personal stories coupled with extensive research (presented in a very reader-friendly format) on what factors help children succeed, particularly children from disadvantaged circumstances. I have come away from reading this book with a new found perspective on the challenges children face academically and novel methods that can assist in not only preparing students for college but also developing character traits that help them navigate the trials of life.

SuzyOlsen

Review posted July 29, 2015

4

Very interesting book about working with large groups of school age children on helping them succeed. The setting is largely in school districts where children are at a disadvantage from the beginning due to their social and economic circumstances.

embbear

Review posted July 9, 2015

5

Great book filled with the latest research on early childhood trauma

jmendenhall

Review posted April 28, 2015

4

This book was interesting and helped me better understand the influence that real life experiences can have on a child and their success. I will definitely think about this when I look at my own children as far as how to measure success and give them the best chance possible.

Mr. Bizjak

Review posted April 8, 2015

4

How Children Succeed has entered the pedagogical lexicon since it was first published. Words like "grit" and "hidden power of character" have now become the latest buzzwords. Paul Tough in his seminal text argues that every child can succeed, and I have witnessed it first hand. A teacher leader and agent for change, I am passionate about reading all learners in my classroom. My underserved population desperately needs teachers who are going to make student-centered decisions based on their needs. "How Children Succeed," especially chapter 2 that explicates on building character within and out, is a great resource for teachers and teacher-leaders to reflect on their own practices while helping all students become and remain successful.

branzei

Review posted March 31, 2015

5

For anyone who works/lives/interacts with youth, this is a must read. Tough interweaves stories with research. I passed this book onto a high school teacher, who is also the FBLA leader. He said, "I have read a lot of books about youth. This was the best I have read in a long time." I agree.

kmier

Review posted March 25, 2015

5

I absolutely love listening to this book on audio. There are so many thought-provoking ideas on teaching children values in conjunction with academics. In addition, I love that the author believes the key to success is willingness and passion - I think the old adage is true; you can succeed at whatever you put your mind and energy on.

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Review posted March 12, 2015

3

Since my first attempt at a review had an door when uploading, I will make this brief. This book reinforced the preconceived idea that individuals succeed by overcoming obstacles. The author uses several real-life examples of youth who came from all walks of life and proceeded to succeed at different levels in society. Overall, I enjoyed the audiobook and would recommend it to someone who would like to. Understand the statistical data and evidence that has led to the many ways our nation has attempted to overcome poverty by incorporating programs in the public school system.

kudasmom

Review posted February 23, 2015

4

Ultimate concept was not a surprise - Kids need a strong home environment. Interesting read. the chess section got a bit long.

kdillon

Review posted January 25, 2015

5

I loved this book! Perfect for a neighborhood lending library! Empowering to children and incredibly useful for our community. Thank you!

mcribbins

Review posted January 13, 2015

4

Very interesting book about different traits that allow children to be successful as adults. A lot of research was included in detail in the book. I listened to the audio recording and it could have stood to be abridged. All in all I would definitely recommend it.